Clean Up..Frens

"Anything that you should have done but didn't, ties u to your past"

Time to clean up "need-to's","have-to's", "ought-to's" from your past...
When you have regrets, it's tough to move forward and grow...

Taking care of these things clean your mental slate and eliminates any regrets or resentments you may harbor...

Now: take a deep breath; look ahead...
Both your conscience，and your future is clear ：）

Abtracted from: Meditations for women, thanks to Dr Rossy for this inspiration website !

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