爱的感觉 !!
爱的感觉，
一开始真的很甜蜜，
总觉得多一个人陪、分担，
不再孤单了，
至少有一个人想著你、
恋著你，
不论做什么事情，
只要能一起，就是好的，
慢慢的，
随著彼此的认识愈深，
开始发现了对方的缺点，
问题一个接著一个发生，
开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，
很多人以为是因为感情淡了，
所以人才会变得懒惰。
错！
其实是人先被惰性征服，
所以感情才会变淡的。
Life is TOO short....to stay MAD
Read a nice articel - Anger is a wasted emotion. Too much energy, too much effort spent on a negative feeling that gets you no closer to being happy than the original catalyst that caused it. Many more worthwhile pursuits exist than to than to sit around seething in anger. Anger at past happenings are better off being let go. The past cannot be changed, better to look toward the future. Anger at people can be distilled into two categories. People you care about and People you don't. The latter should simply be dismissed. Being mad at this person only serves to make you unhappy. It can never have a better resolution. Again just let it go. In the other case, it is much better to try and understand why the person did what was they did that made you mad. This is a much quicker path to resolution than fuming over what could be little more than a misunderstanding. Living life, is about finding happiness. It really is just too short to waste precious time on being angry. There is too much
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