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愛到極愛..恨到極恨..

人總是被思念折磨,在思念裡做一頭可憐的流浪狗。 我們每一個人都是被有條件地愛著,也是有條件地愛著別人。 不必心灰意冷,既然知道世上沒有無條件的愛, 你應該努力使自己更具備條件去愛, 同時也該學習忘記一些條件去愛一個人。 愛情最恐怖的地方,他愛你,不代表他不會背叛你。 他背叛你,也不代表他不愛你。 不愛上他,就不會因為無法跟他長相廝守而難過。 承諾本來就是男人與女人的一場角力, 有時皆大歡喜,大部分情況卻是兩敗俱傷。 不到最後一刻,千萬別放棄。 最後得到好東西,不是幸運, 有時候,必須有前面的苦心經營, 才有後面的偶然相遇。 有時候,我們愛著的,不是現實的那個人, 而是回憶裡的他。 男人覺得對不起一個女人, 不代表他仍然愛她和思念她, 人在回憶的時候,只是回味從前的自己。 有些事情是不可勉強的。 你愛一個人,他不愛你,不代表你不可愛, 不代表你不好,只能代表他不愛你而已。 有時候,我們願意原諒一個人, 並不是我們真的願意原諒他,而是我們不想失去他。 不想失去他,惟有假裝原諒他。 一段愛情可以由愛重新開始,卻不能由原諒重新開始。 我們愛一個人和不愛一個人往往是因為同一些理由。 時間治療痛苦,也加深了痛苦; 它有時候太長,有時候又太倉促。 感情的事很奇怪。 你很投入的時候,對方很抽離。 你很抽離的時候,對方又偏偏很投入。 男人對女人的傷害,不一定是他愛上了別人, 而是他在她有所期待的時候讓她失望, 在她脆弱的時候沒有扶她一把, 在她成功的時候竟然妒忌她。 愛到極愛,往往變成無情。 恨到極恨,往往不再有恨。 愛情永遠是想像比現實美麗, 相逢如是, 告別也如是。

Baby first word !

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Last saturday (12th July 2008) went back to c little angel after leaving him with my parent - seems he's enjoying himself there... dad had been feeding him with all junk food (aka adult's food).. Should not leave him long enuf with my family..as they tend to spoilt his appetite.. he would refuse to eat his porridge when he is used to all the sweet n more flavourer food... Late at nite - playing with him at the mattress, showing him how to roll over.. he laugh whenever I rollover... and teaching him to call "Mama".. and suddenly heard him said "MAMA".. That's melt my heart... he is growing another teeth - makes 5 now : )

Truth ? Doubts ?

Loose instructions on how to search for the truth about anything - 1. Search the official websites. 2. Search the unofficial websites. 3. Search the world out there. 4. Search yourself within. The last instruction is crucial for any search though. Great doubt - great realisation Little doubt - little realisation No doubt - no realisation Any doubts?

Baby's Day at Home..

Few days at home - gain - lots of bums at forehead...in this 9 months he had not even cried so hard like this.. My fault, sayang... mummy shouldn't have left you for a few seconds... knowing that you are so active and quick in action : ) Two central bottom teeth grows when you are 6 months & Two central top teeth when you are Nine months ..good job..hopefully you won't be irritable as your gums would be sore, no restless nights and miserable days for you when your teeny weeny teeth grow through. That's spell why his milk bottle nipples are torn ..all of them...weird when I found out why all his milk bottle nipples are torn... now i Know, now I know, little one... : ) He's becoming more and more strong - doesn't likes to be carried for long as he would try to break free in whatever means as he could...then crawling around, touching and pulling things and not forgetting tasting them : ) Got to be more careful and be alert of what he's doing as he getting more ...

Baby Day Out !!

First baby trip to PD ! Tiara Beach Resort 7-8th July 2008 Damien is 8 mths n 3 weeks - since he likes to play water during his bath - splashing all over the places ..thought it would be fun and he would enjoy going to PD Reached there around 12:30pm after going thru jammed and long long way : ) Poor baby are scared when we were there - not been bringing him out a lot - so he's scared of people ; ( been crying n crying n tears coming out..poor thing..will try to bring him out more whenever I'm free.. that's my promise my dear baby.. On the second day- he's much more better, able to talk to some, letting some to carry him although not for long, but that's an improvement.. Got him into Cutest Baby competition - never would expect any prize....surprisingly...we WON.. Hip hip hooray for baby Damien - for winning the FIRST prize.. ^o^

Little Boss's Progress

On 3rd June, boss D started to crawl forward... so happy as I'd been worrying about his progress as previously he only crawl backward... go-stan.. His temper is beginning to show - would shake his head and scream when he did not want something..e.g. boring food (usual porridge), putting him in cradle n forcing him to sleep, sitting too long on the stroller.. Little boss would laugh out loud if we pour away the leftover porridge, and when he bang his head on our body (it hurts and by reflex we would scream out..but that initiate his next bang..) - so what I do is - just keep quiet and he would stop doing this : ) He's scared of getting inside the lif...would try bringing out more and taking lif up and down..so he's familiar with this..

Mien2 Progress : )

Been neglecting my blog - had been long thinking of putting down some memory for Mien2... It's been 8 months now - my little angel had grown so fast.. Learning to sit (like a humpty-dumpty) n crawl (in reverse action) in 6 months.. Having his first teething - in 7 months...that's when I felt sharp pain on my finger as he likes to chew my finger : ) N now at 8 months 3 days - he's trying to crawl frontwards... n would shove his head if he wouldn't want to be fed...naughty naughty little angel.. How amazed that little angel are able to response and act upon our action without been taught... Hi..my angel..let's see what you could do in a week time : ) Here I promise you that I'll make the best of our life together.. and I love you, little mien-mien