Flip Flop Cãfe

On Dec 2007, we separated for the last time and he left for a life apart from our family. The pain cut deep and I became entangled in a maze of darkness and grief. Grief for the mate I lost and the love I had wanted. In the depths of my grief I had to rebuild my life and care for my little angel. Daily tasks became my anchors in a sea of cold despair. His leaving left me emotionally raw and the pain was searing into my very soul. I felt that he had rejected my love, betrayed my trust, my existence had not been enough to keep him happy and with me. He had become his disease. Living with this man who needed so much had drained me and made me unable to focus clearly on anyone but him. Now that he was gone, I could focus on my little ones and on myself. Loss requires one to deal with the pain... to deal with the changes that occur when loss is a part of your life... I had lost my love, and my man. I was alone in my home, the only adult. My little ones needed me to be strong. They needed me...

Read a nice articel - Anger is a wasted emotion. Too much energy, too much effort spent on a negative feeling that gets you no closer to being happy than the original catalyst that caused it. Many more worthwhile pursuits exist than to than to sit around seething in anger. Anger at past happenings are better off being let go. The past cannot be changed, better to look toward the future. Anger at people can be distilled into two categories. People you care about and People you don't. The latter should simply be dismissed. Being mad at this person only serves to make you unhappy. It can never have a better resolution. Again just let it go. In the other case, it is much better to try and understand why the person did what was they did that made you mad. This is a much quicker path to resolution than fuming over what could be little more than a misunderstanding. Living life, is about finding happiness. It really is just too short to waste precious time on being angry. There is too much...