To Choose or Not........

When you are given a choice - would you consider it or you'll wait till the last minute, last resort only you'll force yourself to choose it????

Have you ever experience the time where you'd made up your mind but out of sudden something came in and busted everything .... and you swirl your decision......

To choose to have a family or to choose to stay the same way.... it's hard because all this needs determination and belief...............

What should I do?????????

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